Ireland Baldwin Calls Out ‘Poisonous’ Family Members Ahead of 30th Birthday

Ireland Baldwin has openly criticized certain family members, describing them as “poisonous” and “narcissistic” in a reflective Substack post titled “30, Flirty and Surviving.” As she approaches her 30th birthday, Baldwin shared insights about her life experiences, emphasizing a newfound understanding of toxic relationships within her family.

In her post published on October 21, 2025, Baldwin expressed relief at shedding the emotional burdens associated with her “narcissistic, unreliable, addict family members.” She remarked, “I move into 30 with a lot less weight on my shoulders,” highlighting the liberation that comes from recognizing and distancing herself from harmful influences.

Baldwin, the daughter of actors Alec Baldwin and Kim Basinger, has faced unique challenges throughout her life, particularly stemming from her parents’ tumultuous relationship. She noted, “I grew up without two parents in my home and no siblings to turn to,” which contributed to her need for validation from her family.

While she did not specify which family members she was referencing, Baldwin’s relationship with her father has been publicly scrutinized. In 2007, when Ireland was just 11 years old, Alec Baldwin left her a notorious voicemail where he called her a “thoughtless little pig.” This incident occurred during a difficult time in the Baldwin family, marked by a contentious divorce and custody battle. Since then, their relationship has reportedly improved, with Baldwin stating in 2017, “He would never say something like that—because I’m 6’2″ and I would kick his a**.”

Reflecting on her past, Baldwin acknowledged the importance of creating her own sense of family. She stated, “My daughter doesn’t have to know these people, and I can protect her from them,” indicating her commitment to building healthier family dynamics for her own child.

Alec Baldwin and Kim Basinger divorced in 2002 after nine years of marriage. Alec has since remarried and has welcomed seven additional children with his wife, Hilaria Baldwin. Kim Basinger has been in a relationship with Mitch Stone for over a decade.

Despite the challenges she faced, Ireland Baldwin has cultivated resilience and a sense of humor about her past. In a 2015 Instagram post, she shared a lighthearted moment with her father reading a children’s book titled “If I Were A Pig,” playfully referencing the infamous voicemail.

As she prepares to enter her thirties, Baldwin’s reflections resonate with many who have navigated complicated family relationships, emphasizing the significance of self-awareness and personal growth. The Daily Mail reached out for comments from representatives for Alec Baldwin, Ireland Baldwin, and Kim Basinger, but received no immediate response.